QUESTION: "Why is it that A man with the finest woman in his life, but Jobless will never be happy. And a woman with the finest Job, but without a man in her life will never be happy?"

QUESTION: "Why is it that A man with the finest woman in his life, but Jobless will never be happy. And a woman with the finest Job, but without a man in her life will never be happy?"

Short Answer: A man's first love is not a woman. A man's first love is his work (Making money). On the other hand, a woman's first love is in her relationship with a man.

Long Answer:  What gives a man primary fulfilment in life, aside his maker, is his work. That is how God designed the man & it's a Divine law.

God first  gave Adam work before he gave him a wife.  Meaning, his number one source of Joy in life is tied to his work & making money, and not his woman.

Advice To Women: Never date or marry a Jobless Man. You will regret it.

There are 7 things God gave man and the least of them is the woman. Until a man has the other 6, don't marry him.

A woman on the other hand, has her first Joy & fulfilment in her relationship with the man in her life. Her world revolves around her relationship with her man. This is also a Divine law. The FIRST thing or gift God gave the woman after her creation was Adam and that's her relationship.

So Ladies, relax if he's so driven with his work and can't seem to focus on you at the moment.

And Guys, calm down if she's so driven with passion and can't seem to think straight without you.

The most important thing is understanding each others make-up and striking a balance, so no one gets to suffer in the relationship.

Also, the acid test of a man's love for God is his work (money), while the acid test of a woman's love for God is her relationship.

Don't mess with those, you won't like their reaction!

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Dr. Okpe Ezekiel Ode,
Your Online International Life Coach & Mentor